1 Paul, a prisoner of Christ Jesus, and Timothy our brother, to Philemon, our beloved fellow worker,
2 to the beloved Apphia, to Archippus, our fellow soldier, and to the assembly in your house:
3 Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
4 I thank my God always, making mention of you in my prayers,
5 hearing of your love, and of the faith which you have toward the Lord Jesus, and toward all the saints;
6 that the fellowship of your faith may become effective, in the knowledge of every good thing which is in us in Christ Jesus.
Free Grace note
Faith that grows outward Paul prays that the fellowship of Philemon's faith would become effective in the knowledge of every good thing in Christ. Notice the order. Philemon already believes, and Paul already thanks God for his love and faith in verse 5. This prayer is not about getting saved; it is about a believer's faith becoming fruitful and generous toward others. Free Grace teaching keeps these two things distinct. Eternal life came to Philemon as a free gift the moment he trusted Christ, and nothing here adds to it. What Paul wants now is growth, the kind of active love that refreshes the saints (verse 7). Compare James 2, where faith is shown effective by works before people. The root is faith alone; the visible fruit is love at work. Assurance rests on the gift, not on the fruit.
7 For we have much joy and comfort in your love, because the hearts of the saints have been refreshed through you, brother.
8 Therefore though I have all boldness in Christ to command you that which is appropriate,
9 yet for love’s sake I rather beg, being such a one as Paul, the aged, but also a prisoner of Jesus Christ.
10 I beg you for my child, whom I have become the father of in my chains, Onesimus,
11 who once was useless to you, but now is useful to you and to me.
12 I am sending him back. Therefore receive him, that is, my own heart,
13 whom I desired to keep with me, that on your behalf he might serve me in my chains for the Good News.
14 But I was willing to do nothing without your consent, that your goodness would not be as of necessity, but of free will.
15 For perhaps he was therefore separated from you for a while, that you would have him forever,
16 no longer as a slave, but more than a slave, a beloved brother, especially to me, but how much rather to you, both in the flesh and in the Lord.
17 If then you count me a partner, receive him as you would receive me.
18 But if he has wronged you at all, or owes you anything, put that to my account.
Free Grace note
Put it on my account This single verse is the gospel acted out between three men. Onesimus owed a real debt, and Paul does not pretend the wrong away. He says charge it to me, I will repay. That word account is a commercial term, like an entry in a ledger. Someone might object that grace ignores justice, but watch how Paul honors both. The debt is fully counted, and it is fully paid, just not by the one who owed it. This mirrors what Christ did for us. Our sin was reckoned to His account, and His righteousness was credited to ours (2 Corinthians 5:21; Romans 4). The result is that Onesimus can be welcomed as if he owed nothing. That is exactly how God receives everyone who simply believes: the debt paid, the record clear, the welcome free.
19 I, Paul, write this with my own hand: I will repay it (not to mention to you that you owe to me even your own self besides).
20 Yes, brother, let me have joy from you in the Lord. Refresh my heart in the Lord.
21 Having confidence in your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even beyond what I say.
Free Grace note
Obedience is the fruit, not the root Paul writes with confidence in Philemon's obedience, sure he will do even more than asked. Some read verses like this and conclude that a true believer must obey or was never saved at all. But look at the setting. Paul is not questioning whether Philemon has eternal life; he plainly affirms Philemon's faith and love in verses 4 through 7. This is one mature believer appealing to another to live out the love he already has. Free Grace teaching calls this the realm of discipleship and reward, not the free gift. Obedience matters enormously, yet it is the fruit that follows faith, never the price of eternal life. Philemon's welcome of Onesimus would refresh Paul's heart and honor Christ, but his standing before God was already secure the day he believed.
22 Also, prepare a guest room for me, for I hope that through your prayers I will be restored to you.
23 Epaphras, my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus, greets you,
24 as do Mark, Aristarchus, Demas, and Luke, my fellow workers.
25 The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen.